DON'T SAY CHILDREN - 1612

Published Date 2018-09-18
ISBN
9786050812817
Number of Impressions 12th Edition
Language Turkish
Number of Pages 240
Skin Type Hardcover
Paper Type Book Paper
Size 15.5 x 21.5 cm
It is dedicated to all adults who favor children.
"I also saw that no matter how valuable people I saw, they valued the child.
Valuing the child is not a blessing but a necessity of being human. Children of parents who care about this requirement live in peace with life. They are children who can laugh enthusiastically when necessary and feel sad when necessary. Children with bright eyes, who lived with the "value of being human" ...

No matter how many troubled children I have seen, I have also seen that they are all "children".

It is necessary to know who the child is in order not to be called a child.

Who is the child and how does he live? How does his personality develop? How are their emotions formed? "

Adem Güneş looks at life through the eyes of a child in Do Not Say A Child. Each episode develops new horizons of thought. Sometimes he says "There is no distraction, it is the normal state of the child", sometimes he emphasizes the "trust" feeling, which is the basis of the adult-child relationship, by pointing out that "child education cannot be done with punishment".
You know, there is always a familiar consolation that "a child forgets" ...

Adults know that no matter how harmed the child is, the next day will come again and with his enthusiastic state he will turn around the adult who hurt him.

This state of the child misleads the adult, it is thought that the child has forgotten his past ...

However, if the child's mind forgets, he does not forget the feelings ...

Because childhood is not a period of learning with "reason", but a period of gaining personality with "feeling".

For example, fear of the dark is not about the "mind", it is the hurt of the soul ... Or nail biting is a manifestation of spiritual weakness that cannot be explained by the mind. Or, it is difficult to stop a child who is overwhelmed by his anger with mental advice, because he is expressing his inner distress with violence.

And all these feelings occur in childhood.

If the child is humiliated, he despises himself, if he is blamed, he blames himself, if he is treated unworthy, he develops himself with a feeling of worthlessness.

The child's mind has no defense, whatever the child experiences ...

A child who is valued becomes valuable ... And valuing a child is not a blessing to him, but his most natural right as a human being ...

The future will be built with parents and educators who are not "children".
CONTENTS

Preface 9

TIME IS FADING, THE YEARS OF CHILDHOOD STAY BACK 11

Leaving Their Childhood Behind 13

Sleeping with Mom Gives Confidence 17

Anxious Child's Medicine is "Confidence" 21

Children Have A Break-Out Point, Too 25

Disease of the Age: Narcissism 29

Hyperactive Children's Drama 35

Is Attention Deficit a Mistake? 39

Father Deprivation Becomes Deeper Among Girls 43

But a Loved One Knows to Love 49

Is There a Child Education with Penalty? 53

Addictive Substances and Children 57

"No Problem, I'll Take Care of" 61

Internet Games and Different States of Consciousness 65

Children with Loss of Communication Ability 69

Guilt Remains 73

The Childhood Years and the Feeling of Worthless 77

The Drama of the Untold Children 83

Time Sensitivity in Children 87

Learning Through Life 91

EVERY CHILD IS SPECIAL 95

Every Child Is Special 97

The Three Magic Keys to Learning 101

The Unlived Childhood Years 105

Is There Any Child Education Without Punishment? 109

Fear is an Element of Education Otamaz 113

Loss of Embarrassment 117

Is it OK to Teach Italic Writing in First Grade? 121

Lessons Learned in Class 125

Basic Problems in Education 129

Sex Education or Privacy Education? 135

Education Starts with Compassion 139

Children Left for a Long Time in Daycare 143

Those Who Own a Child Earn 147

Children Socialize with Sports 151

Football Fan Kids 155

Should there be a Holiday Homework? 159

Some Losses Are More Painful Than Exam Loss 163

School Starts in Service 169

"Audio Book" in School Buses 173

MOMS ALSO HAVE A STORY OF CHILDHOOD 177

Spouse is Spouse Therapist 179

Solid Personality for a Healthy Marriage 183

Therapists Needing Therapy 187

Attachment to the Child 191

Mothers Have A Childhood Story Too 195

Number of Siblings and Child Development 199

Dad What Happened Today? Do you know? 201

Childhood Memories of Parents 205

IF YOU WANT TO PROVIDE HOLIDAY, IT WILL BE HAPPEN 209

The Principle of Avoiding Faults 211

"Boat Fasting" and Willpower Training 215

If you want to live a holiday, it becomes a holiday 219

Holidays in Childhood are Special 221

Adult Worship and Children 225

Does Religion Order The Child Tattoo? 229

Key Points of Quran Education 233

237 If Children Listen to the Quran While Sleeping